a Mother's dream

A typical mother dreaming ahead for the sake of  her child's good life. To have the best among the rest. I am not going to let myself without day dreaming. Many people says that don't let your past control over you of being a good parents. Well..I'm not allowing myself to do that. I try to be a good one !

A parents of this generation is tough demands high standard. To introduced my culture,learning my "mother language"to my daughter at the same time in the future is a great challenge in my part. Things are different now under my time in my childhood days. Before(in my childhood time) parents decided everything for the good of their children but here contrary! Freedom of speach of each child  is highly accepted. They can choose what they want in life. Isn't it's screamy? Maybe not ?what should I need to do is to watch and guide my "little angle"to the right path of her life. I'll do what it takes!just now I'm hoping for the best of her.

My daughter

It's been a while since I've visit here. Having no extra time to update my blog what a pity!. I won't have enough free time under  the day. Now that she is 3 months old, most of the time she took my attention and wanted to talk, play. We were mostly alone at home because her father works for living and he's  home sometimes late in the evening. As you see in the picture. I let my daughter diaper free for 30 minutes a day. One best thing to avoid rashes.





she's getting stronger  to rear up her head and legs at the same time. Ohh she's drooling a lot it demands many cloth changes. Until I realized that better to have little cloth bibs.  

 

perfect mug till coffee lover

This is really a fun thing to those coffee lover. This mug designed by Russian design studio " Art Lebedev". It shows if your coffee is warm or not. Perfect! I love the motive, coffee should drink when it's hot not cold. Winter season this is a prefect timing to produce it and have at home.

The green light in the side light up if the water(or coffee) is warm than 36 degree.

A mother daughter bonding

I really love this moment I think my camera captured it exactly what I wanted. It cannot be better than this. I bake carrot cake then for the first time I did it with icing.  Almost 6 months now since I took my matertiny leave from my work. Fully mother work at home to my beloved daughter. House cleaning I make it once a week or twice sometimes depending if it needed. It's nice to do nothing sometimes just take care of my little girl.

 I keep myself stress free but my husband complained that I am stressing myself! Maybe I did? little by little I moderate myself. Our kitchen renovation is always on my list still waiting for the write time and month. We're living in 3rd floor and the water pump something like that needed to change all the way from floor one till up. Our associations responsible and decide when. In Sweden it doesn't matter if you owned your plats( a house or apartment) their is a roll that I cannot explain here. No choice but to wait, may be I take first move "painting all white first". I'll see in summer.

here is my carrot cake.Icing on top I used philadelpiaost with a squeeze of lime. It's very delicious!

  

Depression after child birth

http://www.aftonbladet.se/kropphalsa/somnklubb/article7720258.ab


Depression after child birth...lack of sleep could be a help. It can even change mothers humor. Good news for those who have a sleep problem. My daughter is still sleeping every night together with us. It's more easier to comfort her than she's sleeping in her cribs. It was a capital idea because I never feel that I suffer sleeping problem in the night.

It's tough being a mom!but those who suffer depression just think high. I think every body mom feels low sometime. Tomorrow it's another day again.



How could you understand

In the picture Model "Meranda Kerr" with her son become a big issue. Discussion in internet become more and more warmer because she took picture while  breast feeding her son. I don't understand why people were so malicious about. Of course I understand maybe because she is showing her breast but for once!look and see it decent. I think she just show how happy she was being a mother. She is proud!!! people why we need to be negative about it.

 I am also a mother that's why I understand her. A good mother should not be ashame for this. We have our different background in life. People are very often to hurt others feeling.

How about a hug today!

Today is the hug day!but actually we ought to hugs all the time. One hug start off our  own body happy chemicals endorphin.

A hug give us:

• happy feelings
• anti depression
• away from stress
• better immune defence
• relaxing
• lower our blood pressure
• serve as pain reliever

Try it in your family it makes sense!really works out.